11 Facts About “He Stopped Loving Her Today”

One of the best parts of the recent Ken Burns series Country Music was not even a part of the broadcast. One of the extras that was edited out of the final version of the series was a detailed segment about “He Stopped Loving Her Today,” the George Jones classic that many consider the greatest country song of all time.

The segment features stories from many of the people behind the song. Unfortunately, George Jones passed away in 2013, but we get the story from songwriters Bobby Braddock and Curly Putman as well as from producer Billy Sherrill and others. Below are 11 things we learned about “He Stopped Loving Her Today.

1. “One of the songwriters had a reputation for killing off characters in his songs. Songwriter Bobby Braddock started writing the song and then took it to Curly Putman for help in finishing the song. Putman was known for writing songs where someone dies, such as “Green, Green Grass of Home.”

2. The song took a long time to write. Braddock and Putman started working together during the Spring of 1977, then took a break. They finished the first version of the song in Fall of 1977.

3. Braddock initially was not too impressed with the song or the character. When they finished the song, Braddock wrote in his journal that on a scale of one to ten, the song was a seven. One thing he never liked about the song was that the main character was not a good role model because he could never move on.

4. Someone recorded the song before George Jones. Johnny Russell recorded the song for two different labels, but it was never released.

5. The song as originally written revealed the main character’s death too early. Braddock and Putman wrote the song with the chorus about the character being dead occurring after the first verse.

6. Producer Billy Sherrill got the songwriters to change the song. Producer Billy Sherrill had Braddock and Putman rewrite the song to move the disclosure of the character’s death until nearer the end. And he also got them to add a verse about the woman coming to the funeral.

7. George Jones initially did not like the song and kept singing the wrong music. During early recording sessions, Jones kept singing the song to the music of Kris Kristofferson’s “Help Me Make It Through the Night.”

8. The song took a long time to record. Between the recording of Jones’s opening line of the song and the recording of his final words, nearly a year had passed. The takes were never right, and then one day Jones came in and said he had it figured out. And then he nailed the recording.

9. The recording gave the producer goosebumps. When Jones finally recorded the spoken recitation, it gave Billy Sherrill goosebumps.

10. Backing vocalist Millie Kirkham knew what the song needed. Vocalist Millie Kirkham was known for her ability to hit extremely high notes, and Sherrill originally planned for her to sing really high on the song. But she realized that the song needed something more subtle, so she forwent her trademark high notes and did something more moving and haunting, stunning everyone in the recording session.

11. The song was song of the year for two years. “He Stopped Loving Her Today” won the Country Music Awards Song of the Year for 1980 and for 1981. And it also helped Jones win his first Male Vocalist of the Year award.

And that’s the Story Behind the Song.

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    They Placed a Wreath Upon His Door: George Jones RIP

    George Jones Collection George Jones, one of the greatest country singers, and the owner of one of the best voices in any genre, passed away today. The Possum was 81.

    You may find more detailed accounts of his life in the obituaries, but each one will mention “He Stopped Loving Her Today,” the great song written by Bobby Braddock and Curly Putnam and recorded by Jones in 1980 not long after his divorce from Tammy Wynette disintegrated into cocaine use and added to the legend of “No Show Jones.” Many call the song, which is about a man who never loses his desire for a lost love, the greatest country song of all time. It also has one of the best twist endings of any song. And the brokenhearted have probably played “He Stops Loving Her Today” on more honky tonk jukeboxes than any other song. Here’s a live performance on The Ronnie Prophet Show in July 1980.

    While any discussion of Jones will begin and end with “He Stopped Loving Her Today,” Jones had other hits and other great songs like “The Race is On,” “White Lightning,” and “A Good Year for the Roses.” As the hits stopped in later years he remained a respected country music living legend. In 1999 he had some success with an album I love, Cold Hard Truth. The album included the wonderful song “Choices,” which, like “He Stopped Loving Her Today,” seemed to fit Jones like a glove:

    “I was tempted, by an early age I found,
    I liked drinkin’, oh, and I never turned it down;
    There were loved ones but I turned them all away;
    Now I’m living and dying with the choices I’ve made.”

    When Jones was supposed to perform “Choices” at the 1999 Country Music Association Awards show, the producers asked him to omit verses from the song, apparently so they could focus on younger artists. Jones stood up for what was right and refused to cut the song and boycotted the show. But Jones was so respected that Alan Jackson cut his own performance of “Pop a Top” short to sing Jones’s song, a tribute that yielded a standing ovation.

    Below is Jones’s version of “Choices,” added to a video played during George Jones’s 2013 Farewell Tour. It is a perfect way to say goodbye to the man. RIP.

    What is your second-favorite George Jones song? Leave your two cents in the comments.

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